It really all depends on your relationship. I was married to a girl that made life miserable cause I played drums in a band. And that's even HOW I met her!! It seems the more you give in the more they will take away. It's almost human nature. I would bet money if you stand your ground and tell her how much it means to you, she should at least compromise. I wound up getting rid of her and swore I'd never stand for another woman that tried to control me. Now I have a better girl who RESPECTS my wishes and stands behind me and we both out of respect for each other, make decisions TOGETHER!! unless you need the money, if you wanna keep it then keep it. If she controls your life that much that's a decision you will regret cause sometime your not gonna want to bend to her every whim. Stand strong whatever decision YOU make or just get used to saying " Yes dear" and live a very controlled unhappy life. Life's too short to be enslaved by anyone. I don't care if she's Megan Fox!