22 yrs ago tonite

[CustomMax]

It was 22 yrs ago tonite that I lost my Best friend I ever had. My Brother John. We were riding 2 nights earlier me on my Low Rider and he was on his Kaw 750. We we riding a familiar stretch of hwy, me on the right side of the fast lane and he was on the inside. We were kinda screwing around a little, just passing each other back and forth when he was riding soo close to the jersey barrier that I just about lost it watching my brother as he's just about to sideswipe the cement barrier but just before he hit he pulled it away. Up the road at the next light as we stopped I flipped on him WTF!! We're you doing? I asked.then he told me, his face shield snapped on one side and was smacking him in the face in his eye. I was crying as I told him holy fuck dude I thought I was watching you die. And then said I couldn't even fathom the thought of you dying. Then just 2 nights later on a Friday night, just like this year you left me forever. Taken by a fucking drunk driver as you were riding home. I was told by a friend to get to my grandmas house. As soon as I saw her face I knew someone was gone. As she said it was you, I hit the ground screaming. I'll never get over losing you bro. As I struggle to finish this, just remember, life is short. Do everything you ever wanted to do and as John and I always said "live every day as though it's your last cause someday you'll be right". Until we meet and ride in the sky again. Your little brother, Eddie

 

[sal98]

My sincere condolences. You honor his memory every time you ride.

Scott

 

[ninjaneer]

i don't know what i would do if i lost my younger brother. we grew apart after high school, but are now trying to make up for lost time. we're both grown now and have lives of our own, but i cherish the moments whenever we get together...as much as he hates me getting up all in his business.

CustomMax, thank you for sharing such a personal story. I know it has to be tough each year around this time..even more so to relive the tragedy through your post. Keep the faith...he is watching over you, proud of the person you've become.

 

[SpecOps13]

That was hard to read. So sorry for your loss...:sad2:

 

[Fire-medic]

I am sorry you did not have moree time together.

Your brothers here are always willing to help out any way we can, even if it is just to listen to you express your love for your brother.

 

[dannymax]

Yes, very hard to read....So sorry Ed.

 

[Bill Kratzenberg]

Sorry for your loss Ed...
You are right, never know when your time is up.

 

[twistedmax]

I feel your pain,I watched one of my brothers take his last breath nine years ago.He was a special olympion.Enjoy your memories till you ride together again.

 

[COP RUNNER]

i BRINGS TEARS TO MY EYE'S !

 

[Redbone]

I know some of what you're feeling Ed, I too just lost my best friend, life long partner of a team (The Boys) and favorite riding partner. May all our brothers RIP!:worthy:

 

[one2dmax]

Belated condolences. I'm not sure what it would be like to lose my brother but don't have any desire to find out anytime soon.

 

[a113ycat]

i BRINGS TEARS TO MY EYE'S !

dude...ditto

 

[rebar]

Choked me up as well Ed.
I lost my parents just recently, but Im sure they are having a ball and waiting patiently for me. Life's short and it wont be long before I see them again.

 

[sdt354]

I'm very sorry Eddy. My little Brother and I don't get out there enough together, but do when we can. I'm going to call him today and try for a ride in YOUR Brothers memory this weekend. My condolances and prayers, your way, right now!
Steve-o

 

[CustomMax]

Thanks everyone, I first woke up after I wrote this and at first felt a little embarrassed. But after reading the nice comments you guys left I was glad I did. And if anyone ever needs anything from me feel free to ask. Seriously, this place is filled with a great bunch that really go above and beyond to stand beside a fellow Vmax owner to support each other like a great family does. So thanks again, and I'm sure my brother John would say the same. I look forward to meeting as many of the members here that I ever get the privledge to do so. Take care, ride safe, Eddie DeMino aka CustomMax