Good luck on any home purchase. It is a great investment. A couple things to ponder...A swimming pool is not going to add value to a home (Think of the possible time you want to resell) And taxes, taxes, taxes. Property taxes can make a huge difference in your overall payment. Even properties in the same State.
My taxes here in Papillion, Nebraska suck rocks. But I still elect to live here....
For a first home, get what you need. For your 2nd home, get what you want. That has always been my advice. You can normally never get what you want in your first home. Build up the equity and then move on!
Brian