2stangs69-91
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shes a girl friend just kick her to the curb.....move on. Find a new one the first part of going out is the best part anyhow lol.
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It sounds like she's prolly pretty miserable too Kevin....maybe the best thing for both of you is to just call it quits. Unfortunately, not every relationship comes with a fail safe guarantee.
It truely sux, but that's just the way it is sometimes.
It truely sux, but that's just the way it is sometimes.
Nicki66
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Yeah we are 100% done as of Saturday. I gave her the boot. Enough is enough.
She ended this on Easter. So I went back online dating site. She felt compelled to play a cruel joke on me and pretend that she was interested. Mystery girl and I were to meet on Sat afternoon, but she didnt show. Something smelled fishy from the beginning, but I gave it a chance.
Mystery girl, dumb ass sends me a long BS email why she couldnt make it. Real fish smelling now.
Okay dont hate me, but I tried the ex girls email password and I was in. I found all of the trick she had planted.
I gave her numerous attempts to come clean before I devised a way to tell her that I knew she did it. Couldnt tell her that I invaded her email. After NUMEROUS lies of denial, I told her that I had my computer buddy run the IP address from the BS email and then one from a very recent one from her. She started talking then like a school girl and confessed fully.
I now felt better and said, good-bye!
She ended this on Easter. So I went back online dating site. She felt compelled to play a cruel joke on me and pretend that she was interested. Mystery girl and I were to meet on Sat afternoon, but she didnt show. Something smelled fishy from the beginning, but I gave it a chance.
Mystery girl, dumb ass sends me a long BS email why she couldnt make it. Real fish smelling now.
Okay dont hate me, but I tried the ex girls email password and I was in. I found all of the trick she had planted.
I gave her numerous attempts to come clean before I devised a way to tell her that I knew she did it. Couldnt tell her that I invaded her email. After NUMEROUS lies of denial, I told her that I had my computer buddy run the IP address from the BS email and then one from a very recent one from her. She started talking then like a school girl and confessed fully.
I now felt better and said, good-bye!
4gasem
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WOW! THAT is a girl you DON'T want... Just remember... It should come easy. You shouldn't have to WORK for it. Yes you have to put work into a relationship but you shouldn't have to explain everything you do and why. My wife and I are awesome together. I am the sole bread winner as she goes to school fulltime and we still have no issues. When she needs something she tells me what she's doing but only to let me know she's going to drain the account! lol :biglaugh:
Anyway... Move on and have fun!
You'll know when it's the right one.
It took me 34 years! :confused2:
Oh and I have three bikes... hehehe....
100% with Chris on this Kevin....you don't want anything to do with someone that mean spirited! Man, what she did was totally spitefull and vindictive....time to move on!!
"Bye girlie, it's been real, and it's been fun......it just hasn't been REAL FUN!!"
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I feel a fight coming on at my house. Today is our 8 year anniversary. I forgot to say something this morning. I have nothing planned. I didn't buy anything. Anyone have an idea of what I can get for $20 or less? Payday isn't until next week and I'm broke......
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4gasem
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Anything is better than nothing!!!! Well... Maybe not ANYTHING!
naughtyG
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What's her fave drink? Or flower? Or food?
Just get one of these and a card and you'll be golden. If you can clean or cook that's major brownie points. Or if you can do/finish/fix something that's been left on hold for a while, even better..
In the end, it's the thought that counts. Just make it special, clean up a bit and you'll be golden.
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I just fixed our BBQ grill. I couldn't spend the money on a new one so I fixed ours up. I welded up a new grate in the shop at work after hours. We had a bunch or empty wire spools so I broke em down and used the 1/4 and 5/16 bolts that held it together for the grate bars. Turned out pretty sweet IMO but its only the 2nd thing I've ever welded and I'm hoping the the welds will stand the test of time. Do you think this will count? :biglaugh:
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98Redlne
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Flowers and a card with something truly heartfelt and hand written is normally a good start.
Kevin.....be glad you did get rid of her. People say things when they get mad and they even do things they regret in the heat of the moment, however what she did is 100% vindicative, took thought, planning and execution. You don't want someone like that in your life.
Kevin.....be glad you did get rid of her. People say things when they get mad and they even do things they regret in the heat of the moment, however what she did is 100% vindicative, took thought, planning and execution. You don't want someone like that in your life.
naughtyG
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Well it's a start but hey it's more a boy's than a girl's toy..
How about you just dress up a bit and take her on a date? Doesn't have to be anywhere that needs cash, even a walk somewhere sweet like a lake or whatever will do. Then have a card and some sweet words ready. As long as you make her feel special you're fine.
If you really really feel you wanna get her something you could always draw up a voucher, to be honored on payday! Girls love manicure/pedicure, or any pampering of the sort. Only $30-50 usually..
How about you just dress up a bit and take her on a date? Doesn't have to be anywhere that needs cash, even a walk somewhere sweet like a lake or whatever will do. Then have a card and some sweet words ready. As long as you make her feel special you're fine.
If you really really feel you wanna get her something you could always draw up a voucher, to be honored on payday! Girls love manicure/pedicure, or any pampering of the sort. Only $30-50 usually..
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Damn G, you're pretty good with the ideas here, thanks.
FREERIDER
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Hand picked flowers from your neighbors garden is one of my tricks. If no neighbor garden then the local shopping centers usually have something to work with. Tell her theres no money and freestyle a song of some sort. Even if it comes out corny, it will make her laugh and thats what its all about.
"honey I got no money but im here to say, I hope youll love me anyway. I took some flowers from the store, cause you deserve them so much more. You make me wanna dance, you make me jiggle in my pants. Im gonna grab you by the hand and dance around like a clown cause theres nobody like you around. BABY you light my fire, I wanna take you so much higher!!!!!!" :You_Rock:
Something like that. Take it, use it. Shit like that works for me. They melt.
FREERIDER's panty melting verses. hahaha:clapping::clapping:
"honey I got no money but im here to say, I hope youll love me anyway. I took some flowers from the store, cause you deserve them so much more. You make me wanna dance, you make me jiggle in my pants. Im gonna grab you by the hand and dance around like a clown cause theres nobody like you around. BABY you light my fire, I wanna take you so much higher!!!!!!" :You_Rock:
Something like that. Take it, use it. Shit like that works for me. They melt.
FREERIDER's panty melting verses. hahaha:clapping::clapping:
4gasem
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Not bad! Just an FYI as I'm in the welding industry and all... You can buy 36" stainless cut lengths of 316L and weld them up as well and make a grate. Nice thing is... They won't need replaced for MUCH longer...
Chris
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Man, I'm really impressed with you guys! I thought this kind of stuff was only in the movies.
FREERIDER
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And for the GFs and Xs thing. aaaaaahhhhgggg!!!!!!!!
Ive got the exwife and kids to deal with. (now have the kids full time to raise em up right without EXs bullshit psychoness)
Then to add to it I finally broke it off with the GF of two yrs on Easter Sunday,(is there some kind trend here?) We were breaking up the weekend my Dad passed so she stayed to help get me through that, which Im grateful for. And so we needed to break it off so many times but neither one of us had the balls to do it permanently. So finally went down to the garage and strapped on my Vmax Rider Balls and told her it was over and why. It was just to much, 120 miles enbetween us. San Diego to LA is just a strait pain in the ass. She took it relatively good.
I had been trying to do end it for some time, I had another girl in mind(who had BF of her own) who I had some contact with over the last yr or so. Not physical. We'll call her RED, for her most beautiful long red hair. Well it turned out the stars were almost alining, saw it on facebook that RED had broken up with her BF as well. So I contacted RED and set up a lunch date for this last Sat. and off we went. She informed me that she was taking a break from men. mmmm, scratching head now.:ummm::ummm: After lunch we were sitting at the pub when her feet ended up on my lap to warm up via a foot rub. ???????,:ummm::confused2:. DAMN those are the most sexy feet Ive ever felt.
She had shit to do so our evening had to end. :bang head::bang head:
Hit her up for breakfast on Sunday morning, no RIDING cause my bike and foot are broken.:bang head::bang head:
We went out and ate at a place of her chosing and on the way back to drop her off at her house we passed her local bar filled with a bunch of HDs in the lot. She asked if wanted to go a drink and meet some her friend she RIDEs with. She has her own Harley.unk:unk:She also works in the industry.
Well in the bar after the HD guys took off for there RIDE I had the bar put on the MOTO GP races, joking about the foot rubbing, which also continued at breakfast in the restaurant. She had no idea of the amount of boost she was building up over here. She says something about how i could give her a shoulder rub. OK:clapping:, of coarse she starts to melt in my carpenter hands. Remember Im after more than just her panties here. This girls got me by the carbs here. I went against my MANjudgement here and backed off trying to play the respectful nice guy.:ummm::ummm::bang head::bang head::bang head::bang head::bang head::bang head::bang head::bang head:
Instead of me going for the kill and her bedroom, I dropped her off and hoped for the best. :confused2::confused2:
Talking to the next day, yesterday. She says:
1. Im to country.( ya i have a few acres and a tractor, but i can skate and surf too)
2. (the deal breaker) I have kids. She dont want to do the step mommy thing, been there she says.
For her to have given me so much attention that has to BULLSHIT.
Now I struggle with the old ways. Do I not except her lines and give chase till she gives in. Which could lead to her not talking to me anymore. :confused2::confused2::confused2::confused2::confused2::confused2::confused2::confused2::confused2::confused2::confused2:
Just had to share that. Thanks.
FREERIDER.
Ive got the exwife and kids to deal with. (now have the kids full time to raise em up right without EXs bullshit psychoness)
Then to add to it I finally broke it off with the GF of two yrs on Easter Sunday,(is there some kind trend here?) We were breaking up the weekend my Dad passed so she stayed to help get me through that, which Im grateful for. And so we needed to break it off so many times but neither one of us had the balls to do it permanently. So finally went down to the garage and strapped on my Vmax Rider Balls and told her it was over and why. It was just to much, 120 miles enbetween us. San Diego to LA is just a strait pain in the ass. She took it relatively good.
I had been trying to do end it for some time, I had another girl in mind(who had BF of her own) who I had some contact with over the last yr or so. Not physical. We'll call her RED, for her most beautiful long red hair. Well it turned out the stars were almost alining, saw it on facebook that RED had broken up with her BF as well. So I contacted RED and set up a lunch date for this last Sat. and off we went. She informed me that she was taking a break from men. mmmm, scratching head now.:ummm::ummm: After lunch we were sitting at the pub when her feet ended up on my lap to warm up via a foot rub. ???????,:ummm::confused2:. DAMN those are the most sexy feet Ive ever felt.
She had shit to do so our evening had to end. :bang head::bang head:
Hit her up for breakfast on Sunday morning, no RIDING cause my bike and foot are broken.:bang head::bang head:
We went out and ate at a place of her chosing and on the way back to drop her off at her house we passed her local bar filled with a bunch of HDs in the lot. She asked if wanted to go a drink and meet some her friend she RIDEs with. She has her own Harley.
unk:unk:She also works in the industry.Well in the bar after the HD guys took off for there RIDE I had the bar put on the MOTO GP races, joking about the foot rubbing, which also continued at breakfast in the restaurant. She had no idea of the amount of boost she was building up over here. She says something about how i could give her a shoulder rub. OK:clapping:, of coarse she starts to melt in my carpenter hands. Remember Im after more than just her panties here. This girls got me by the carbs here. I went against my MANjudgement here and backed off trying to play the respectful nice guy.:ummm::ummm::bang head::bang head::bang head::bang head::bang head::bang head::bang head::bang head:
Instead of me going for the kill and her bedroom, I dropped her off and hoped for the best. :confused2::confused2:
Talking to the next day, yesterday. She says:
1. Im to country.( ya i have a few acres and a tractor, but i can skate and surf too)
2. (the deal breaker) I have kids. She dont want to do the step mommy thing, been there she says.
For her to have given me so much attention that has to BULLSHIT.
Now I struggle with the old ways. Do I not except her lines and give chase till she gives in. Which could lead to her not talking to me anymore. :confused2::confused2::confused2::confused2::confused2::confused2::confused2::confused2::confused2::confused2::confused2:
Just had to share that. Thanks.
FREERIDER.
4gasem
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Well FR I'd say move on... There's another one out there for ya!
Chris
Chris
+1.......redheads are fun to play with......usually a little too psychotic to keep though:confused2:
Just my opinion.......
1967vmax
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Id say take this from my experience RED in head crazy in bed, F@@K her and forget her.
