Thanks everyone! So I'm pretty sure now, that what my problem is is in fact a starter clutch issue. I watched the "vmax starter clutch kaput" video on youtube and aside from theirs sounding like a rock bouncing around in the casing, whereas mine sounds like a bag of loose gravel, the whirring and what-not is exactly what my Max is suffering with.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hDUKb7JbzZE
I've got a brand spanking new battery so I don't think that that's it, but I'll go put a multimeter on it just to completely rule it out instead of assuming. As I read more of the different posts, I'm gaining more confidence with my ability to do this (but although it looks relatively straight forward, everyone makes it look so easy, and if this ends up just like my other jobs, it's gonna take me three times the effort hahahahaha)
So what are y'all's opinion on this:
Permanent solution for starter clutch problems? Overkill? Obviously there is a significant cost difference, but is the cost-to-benefit ratio just as significantly favorable? how 'bout the cost-to-peace-of-mind ratio? is just replacing and tightening and peening the stock setup just as good at ~$20 vs the modernization at ~$300? How long will the $20 fix last before I have to revisit versus the $300 upgrade?