You ran into one of the ******** who feels the need to be "vocal" about his overpriced butt-jewerely. While ******** ride every brand, they do seem to gravitate toward Harleys. People just don't feel like a "badass" riding a Honda, something they capitalized on years ago. Remember the "You meet the nicest people on a Honda" ads?
Harleys (and their riders) are all show and no go. They'll "talk the talk" all day long, but when it comes to action they all ***** out, because they know those "piece of **** rice rockets" are cheaper, built better, faster, and will still be on the road long after the Harley's in the scrapyard.
One of the people I ride with every so often has a Fatboy, and while he's definetly a nice guy, he definetly bought the bike for the image and lifestyle that accompanies it. He's owned it for 7 years now and doesn't even have 3000 miles on it. Takes it to the local bike nights and local rallies, that's about it.
Unless you see a Vrod with a turbo hanging off the side, you have nothing to fear from any HD.
As for SOA, I don't get it. You know how people say "action figures" are dolls for boys? I see SOA as a soap opera for men. Every episode is 90% touchy-feely talk about nothing. No action, no *** kicking, no car chases, no explosions. Lots and lots of talking. Boooooooring. I know I'm in the minority here, but honestly the show bores me to death, despite really trying to like it. I guess when I first saw it I was hoping for a new-age Knight Rider-esque show or something.