Scuffing the rotors is a good idea if they have not been grooved too badly and are within the wear limit. However, when you do this, you want to scuff them in a radial pattern (across the wear grooves) And as stated previously, turning them is not a viable option and usually ends badly. Most rotors will develop grooves before they reach the end of their life. New pads on grooved rotors is not necessarily a bad thing either. The pads will wear into the grooves over a short time. This is what pad manufacturers refer to as "bedding in" the pads to achieve maximum contact surface area between the pad and rotor surfaces. You may notice diminished braking upon initial installation of new pads but this will improve rapidly each time you use the brakes until they are completely "bedded in"
The Ebay rotors are a great option as well. I have a set on "The Punisher" and they are an amazing improvement over stock when paired with some EBC HH pads. The price makes the deal even sweeter.
Good Luck,
Dusty