caseyjones955
Well-Known Member
Years ago, as I was working towards my paramedic, I worked in a Nursing home as a nurses aid. It tends to give you a different perspective on life, as well as being a humbling job.
There were people that have no awareness, no quality of life, you turned them ever 2 hrs. The families saw them 1-2 times a year. These people were in the upper 90's -lower 100's. No matter what, these people were being kept alive, sometimes with a tube in every orifice that they had.
I always kinda wondered if the family members secretly hated them.....or felt guilty, and so wanted to keep them alive at all costs......but then felt guilty, so never came for a visit, or even stopped by to read to them, or to just spend time with them.
I'm not saying euthanize them.....but they werent being allowed to die either.
I'm a private duty/in home independent RN most of the time but when I do shift work I'm a nursing home or hospice nurse, I asked my wife to just make sure I go down the stairs at 94 or once I cant wipe my own ass anymore. A nursing home bed is a dark place to die, or live. There are ways to make it more tolerable for most, including staff. My first rotation in a nursing home made it pretty clear what I was supposed to be doing.
Now with tech getting better as stated, people are living longer, but from what I can see Joe Q. Public is getting dumber than a pile of stripped bolts. I think it will cancel itself out.
As for darting under that, a few years ago I would have w/o thinking twice but at this point I would go around... not that I would not be tempted in the most powerful way but I think there could be quite a cost for failure. That is a great pic, thank you for posting it. I feel the temptation coursing through my veins and I"m not even there.