Well, here's the update...I'm not sure I really have any problem. In fact, it seems I have better pressure than most.
I installed Tom's pressure gauge which was a snap. It fits with the flyscreen no problem(with the Python handlebar). For the oil galley, I used a subaru crush washer # 11126aa000, with the ridged crushable side against the adapter, the flat side toward the bike. I also generously used thread tape and seated it home. I don't know the torque, but you can feel it get a bit harder as the washer touches, and another half turn or so until it really doesn't want to go any farther so I stopped. Screwed in the brass elbow(mine already had thread tape on it) and got it pointing straight forward when tight. Clamp the gauge to the handlebar, ziptie the line out of the way, done.
Cold start, it goes right up to 60 where I presume the bypass opens. After about a minute it settled down to 20psi idle at 120* coolant temp. After a while, it leveled out at 12psi and didn't go any lower as temp rose , idling at 1000rpm. It rises about 10-12psi per 1000RPM and when hot peaks at around 58psi @5000rpm.
This is without having dropped the pan. I have no idea if the o-ring is "popped" or not, but after hearing lots of people reporting 2-3 psi at idle this seems fine.
So either I have a really good oil pump, or a p/o did some sort of upgrade. I'm the third owner, and the person I bought it from mentioned nothing about any oiling upgrades, though most of the mods on the bike the first original owner did, so who knows.
At this point I don't see a ton of reason to pull the exhaust and drop the pan when the pressure is perfectly fine. If the pressure randomly tanks one day I'll be able to see it with the gauge.