Vaseline? Hm, might work but I dont recall of ever doing this.
Once a guy came to me talking about a leak he couldt fix. He was torquing
the bolts tighter and tighter so finaly he broke 2 of them. I bealive it was the clutch cover. After removing broken bolts, i've checked that cover with clearance meter placing it on a good pice of glass - more then 1mm in some spots - that much could not be fixed. He told me did a DD upgrade some time in the past and reused the gasket.
Besides giving him another cover(trown the old one into scrap bucket) i also showed to him how to make a gasket by yourself.
+/- 10% of torque is ok. More then 20% can brake the bolt.
I use vaseline so the gasket could potentially be re-used. Ill wet it down next time. 10% is def my max I agree. Already have one helicoil on the clutch cover (that was to spec too)
U think the covers get warped? Or does the factory not care? It seems they don't leak until someone takes them off then can't seal them again.