It seems you are just a NO person. Im gonna tell you something very peculiar... Im a young guy at 32 right now and i got my share of beating from my parents, teachers and kids at school when i was a little rugrat. I love them regardless. Now i know that i was being "educated" not spanked just because... I went to school and fought with some school mates and got ass kicked and kicked ass as well, i got scars, injuries and such and im here to tell the story as a regular society member example.
Today if a parent slaps his kid its just violence, if the teacher taps a kid it is violence and if kids just play around it is bullying and then what do we got? All messed up kids that talk back to the parents (when they don't beat them up - all fecked up inverted society), teachers and all the authority "symbols" that they should obey and pay respect to. Sometimes a good slap is the best option. I still have no kids but my dog knows it well. My wife cannot control my dog and he does what ever he wants with her but when i get home he gets his **** together because he knows whos running the show here... Its the same all along... It all starts when they are little and the upbringing makes people what they are today and when parents rather give them a playstation instead of go play with them to the yard and pay attention to them this is what we get. Kids that have no sense of valour or cost of life. The best toy i had when i was a kid was a bearing cart my dad made for me, i had that little thing for like 10 year till i broke it and then i made my own. When kids always get what they want and the parents in order not to have to listen to them and be left alone just give it to them they will bare no sense of life and how hard is to manage it... Thats all...